A young friend of mine from a past life in a different state
allows her self worth to be determined by other people. I have found that to be
the case among many young women I have known as a pastor. There are some women
who get to the point of loathing themselves sometimes to the point of taking
their own life. How do we condition our girls to defer to others and depreciate
their self value? Is this being passed down from mother to daughter?
Over coming this kind of conditioning is most difficult. It
can be done but it takes a lot of self re-programming the brain. This all
starts with the recognition that the self deprecation is taking place. Reality
is the beginning of renewal.
The second step is telling your self many times every day, “I am a child of God, loved by God and I
am somebody.”
The third step is to locate people who love and value you
for who you are and hang out with them all you can.
The fourth step is to put the people who put you down out of
you life. Granted that is sometimes not an easy thing to do.
Life is too short to let other people bring you down so
don’t let them. You are in control of that. Think positive things about
yourself and say them out loud to yourself.
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